The Three Traits of Top Network Marketing Leaders - Part II Self Worth

Filed Under (Uncategorized) by Danielle on 17-11-2009

Most people have self worth, right? And you certainly do being that you’re an entrepeneur, right? Well… you might want to think that over. TRUE Leaders understand what Self-Worth really means. Check out the video below to find out if you really have Self-Worth.

 

 

EVERY Top Network Marketing Leader knows, is that in order to have success, they must first love themselves enough to believe that they deserve success. I’m just curious….When was the last time you stood in front of the mirror, looked yourself in the eyes and said “I Love You.” Sounds cheezy right? I thought so too! But only until I realized the impact my Self-Worth had on my level of Success.

You come first!!!! ALWAYS! If everything is not right within you, nothing can be right in your life or in your business.

Do you want to continue being frustrated and struggling because your lack self-worth is getting in the way? Or do you want to face the obsticle of Self-Worth head on so you are ready to revel in all the success that comes your way? Go get in front of a mirror and start loving yourself!

Believe in Your Success! I Believe in You!

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The Three Traits of Top Network Marketing Leaders - Part I: Desire

Filed Under (Desire, Leadership) by Danielle on 22-10-2009

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What do Network Marketing leaders have in common(other than their obivous success)? How did these leaders get where they are today while the rest of us have sat and struggled?

Every Network Marketing leader has Three Common Traits. If you can find these traits within yourself, nothing will stand in your way of success.

The first of these three traits is DESIRE. Without Desire, we are lost…..

 

Take some time RIGHT NOW.  Stop and Think about what your “WHY” is. What do you want out of life? What is driving you to want these things? What is most important to you? What is that one thing above all that gives you motivation and drives you to keep going without stopping or looking back? Find It. Write it down. Put it up where you will see it everyday. Read your “WHY” the moment you wake up in the morning, and just before you fall asleep.

If you find your “WHY” and keep it at the forefront of you mind, you will be UNSTOPPABLE. You can achieve ANYTHING that you want in life. Leaders only become leaders because they have a desire and they don’t stop, no matter how many ups and downs, to keep moving forward until they finally get there. The only difference between leaders and followers is that the leaders DON’T QUIT.

Once you have found your “WHY” share it with others. The more you state your ”WHY”, the powerful it will become to you.  Tell us by commenting below. Share it with those that are close to you and will help to continue motivating you. You MUST  share your “WHY” with you mentor so they can help you stay focused and strong.

Believe in Your Success! I Believe in You!

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What is Your Mental Energy Telling the World?

Filed Under (Personal Development, Talking to Prospects, Team Building) by Danielle on 01-10-2009

Are you aware that, as humans we are constantly transmitting our energy back and forth between one another? Are you in tune with your mental energy and do you know what you are telling others through the energy you transmit?

This video expalines why it is SO CRUCIAL to be conscious of your mental energy and how this energy affects all that you are and all that you do in life.

 

Evaluate the flow of energy in your life. What are it’s ups and downs? What triggers your positive energy to turn negative? What can you do to reverse the flow of negative mental energy in you? Please share with us what you have found to be helpful for you in eliminating your negative energy.

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Clearing Out Unhealthy Relationships

Filed Under (Achieving Success) by Danielle on 17-06-2009

Giving & ReceivingWe all know them. We’ve all been a part of them or maybe you’re still involved in one…unhealthy draining relationships. Relationships that continuously ask us to give more and more of ourselves without offering much in return. Relationships that interrupt our daily lives.  The individuals on the other side of these relationships are ones that are self serving and often make us cringe when we see their name on the caller ID.  How do we get involved in unhealthy relationships?  How do these relationships affect our success?

There are many reasons for which we get involved in unhealthy relationships. The hardest is when it is a family connection, we feel that there is an obligation attached. Certain types of personalities tend to get caught in these relationships(this is very true for me). The type of personalities that try to please everyone and make everyone happy. Also the ‘fixer’ type personality that wants to fix and help these people when they continuously have drama in their lives. While being a compassionate giving person is a great quality. It can be to a fault when we are sucked in by others who take advantage of that compassion.

For individuals continuously finding themselves in these relationships(which is also true for me), there is a direct correlation with the relationship you have with yourself.  These unhealthy relationships are simply mirroring how you perceive yourself. If you don’t value yourself, your qualities, abilities or whatever you have to offer, then why would you stand up to someone else who thought the same? THIS IS KEY. If you are finding that you are in many of these types of relationships, it’s time to look inward and evaluate your relationship with yourself. Do you treat yourself with respect? Do you tend to your wants and needs on a regular basis? Are you honest with yourself? All these things must be in place for you to attract strong and healthy relationships. When you are centered and respect yourself, it will command others to do the same.

It is unhealthy relationships that are poison to success. They do nothing but hold back an individual from reaching their full potential. They drain time and energy. They promote negative thinking and feelings. In order to free your spirit and be open to success, unhealthy relationships cannot be present.

I was once given a tough but important challenge by a teacher of mine. He called it the phone book challenge. The instructions were to go through the phone book in my cell phone person by person. When I reached a person that made me cringe each time they called, I had to delete them. Some were easier than others to delete. But it really made me look at all of the relationships in my life and I was able to see which ones were uplifting and which ones were pulling me down.

Am I telling you to ditch all of the people in your life that bring you down? Not exactly. I fully understand that some relationships don’t allow that, especially those with parents or siblings. But some do need to be dropped. Others evaluated and changed. Maybe you just need to cut ties for a few weeks or months so you can focus on a project you’re working on. Most importantly, once you are free to move forward and start achieving success, it will be obvious who will stick by you with support and who will pull back.

Take time to look at all of your relationships today. Do the ‘Phone Book Challenge’. Maybe you’re in a relationship right now and are not aware of how draining it is on you. Start thinking about yourself and putting your needs first. Success does not come from putting yourself second. You can never fully achieve anything if you are not centered and do not feel whole. Life is too short, free yourself of unhealthy bonds.

Believe in Your Success! I Believe in You!

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Excuses Are Well Planned Lies…..

Filed Under (Achieving Success) by Danielle on 16-06-2009

Excuses are LiesNot to long ago, I could’ve been crowed the ‘Queen of Excuses’. I always seemed to have a reason why something didn’t happen the way it should’ve. Or why I wasn’t able to do as good of a job as I could’ve. In my mind, I thought if I could convince the other party and/or myself that there was a legitimate reason I didn’t achieve better results, they I would still be a successful person. So, day after day I continued to make up these excuses and day after day I continued to under achieve my goals. It even got so bad that I would sometimes use excuses to tell myself that I didn’t have to do something. I’d say,”It’s ok. Today this happened and that thing came up. I just won’t be able to do it.” So day after day my ‘to do’ list kept piling up because I’d always find an excuse not to do what was on it. I was LYING to myself to feel good in the moment and ‘telling myself’ that I was still a successful person even if I didn’t follow through on what needed to be done.

I continued this way for years. Stressed and frustrated because I never was achieving what I wanted. At times feeling overwhelmed because there was just SO MUCH on my ‘to do’ list. The stress and frustration affected all my relationships and perpetuated even more excuses.  I was so unhappy but I didn’t know why. I didn’t even realize what I was doing to myself.

One day, after breaking down from the stress, I asked myself a question,”Why am I not doing all of these things that I want and need to do?” That’s when I realized that it was because I was always giving myself an excuse. A PASS to get away with everything. I knew the only way to start acheving was to get rid of the excuses.

I’d love to say that from that moment on I never made up another excuse in my life, but of course it took time. The important thing was that I was realzing and ‘calling myself out’ everytime I made an excuse. From there I would stop myself, correct my mistake and take accountability. Was it easy correcting a habit of many many years? Not exactly. But it was so freeing! I could never go back to feeling trapped in all that stress and frustation.

The biggest lesson of all was the lesson of success. I was now able to see that these excuses were holding myself back from achieving anything. I was lying to myself to try to feel successful when in truth, I wasn’t successful at all. Now I have tore down those boundaries and have left nothing in the way of getting to where I want to be.

I encourage you to take a look at what’s going on in your head. What excuses are you telling yourself? What could you be doing if those excuses weren’t holding you back? I bet you would be amazed at your potential if you could  tear down those excuses.

Believe in Your Success! I Believe in You!

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Is Network Marketing for Moms?

Filed Under (Work at Home Moms) by Danielle on 08-06-2009

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Network Marketing is the PERFECT place for Moms looking to make an income. Whether
it’s home parties or conducting a business on the internet, Moms can find a balance of
work and family in the Network Marketing industry. Not only will you be creating success
for yourself, you will be making your family proud. Best of all, your income will
be residual and will be financially taking care of your family for the rest of their lives.

Believe in Your Success! I Believe in You!

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